F2F Class notes 29th June (Christian)

Do not think much more

Last weekend , I was very unhappy because my boss didn’t replay my email. I reported the status of my project to my boss and I was looking forward to her replay happily. But after that one day, I discussed with other colleague, it seemed that he know about my email , but actually I didn’t copy to him. My much more think stated from there. ” maybe my boss and the person are both Singaporean, and my boss was preferred to trust him and wanted to get the business on their hand.etc.. “That’s way I was unhappy.

I didn’t want to do anything include in job or exercise , even I have seed the new opportunity for my job recently.This Monday, there is one question from HR , which let me lost the opportunity, is ” can you conversation in English “… A cold wind blowing…

Fine, yesterday my boss discussed with me and she would give me enough independent to handle these project. It can be called a better result. And I knew that I need to enhance my English speak skill.

Dont overthink

Last weekend , I was very unhappy because my boss didn’t replay to my email. I reported the status of my project to my boss and I was happily looking forward to her reply. But after one day, I discussed with  another colleague,and it seemed that he knew about my email , but actually I didn’t copy him in.

My overthinking  started from there. Thoughts entered my head such as “maybe my boss and the person in question are both Singaporean, so he prefers to trust him and wants to do business in their own unique way”  regardless of his thinking process- That’s why I was unhappy.

This thought process had a profound effect on me and i lost my motivation to do anything, whether it was a task related to my job or something unrelated like exercise.

I even was lucky enough to be presented with a new job opportunity recently. Last Monday I was posed one question from the HR of a different company , this “golden question” was “can you have a conversation in English as the interview will be in English, I had to admit..I could feel a cold chill run down my spine.

Long story short, I lost the opportunity but I know with work there will be plenty more opportunities in the future.

Life moves on and just yesterday my boss dicussed a new project in which I will have more independence and freedom, there is a silver lining after all! I know I need to continue enhancing my English skills but im confident its just a matter of time before Im on a whole new level.