F2F Class Notes (Ben) [S]

When conflict happens, you’d better to have the same emotion with another person.

First step, you’d better make yourself own the same emotion with the one who is conflicted with you.

Second step, you’d better to try to have interaction emotion with the one.

Then you can tell him your opinion and your suggestion. At that time, it is easier for him to receive your opinion

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When conflict happens, it is better to have the same emotion as the other person.

First step, it is better to put yourself in the same emotion as the one who is in conflict with you.

Second step, it is better to try to have empathy with the other person.

Then you can tell them your opinion and your suggestions.

When you do that, it is easier for them to receive your opinion.

Grammar

There is another speaking –>
There is another expression

From your opinion –>
From your view
In your opinion

The computer’s reflection is very slow –>
The computer’s reaction is very slow

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You’d better do this = right now. Today. In this specific situation
It is better to do this = in general
You’d better finish your homework if you want to eat tonight.
It is better to do your homework in advance.

Vocabulary

empathy = the capacity to understand someone’s feelings