Email Service Notes 21st January (Tony)

Original –

The communication skill is the important life lesson for everyone.
And how to apply this skill to the daily life which is difficult.
For example: when someone asks you: would you like to have some water or juice? In Chinese they will answer: NO I don’t want .
In Western, they will reply: I’m fine thank you. ( it means I don’t need anymore )
Or if you invite someone for a dinner but you couldn’t make it . in Chinese they will say: i can’t make it . I have already plan for tonight . next time.
IN Western, they will say : Sounds good, I would love to, but I have arranged a dinner with friends. Let’s do it next time soon.
For me
Both different kinds of expresssion have good and bad side.
I would love to learn good manner talk, but sometimes I feel there is always has second meaning behind which makes me confuse what is real meaning in their mind .

Correction –

Learning Communication skills is an important life lesson for everyone.
And applying these skills to daily life is difficult.
For example: when someone asks you: “Would you like to have some water or juice?” In Chinese they will answer: No, I don’t want .
In Western culture, they will reply: “I’m fine, thank you.” ( which means I don’t need anymore )
Or if you invite someone to dinner but you couldn’t make it. In Chinese they will say: I can’t make it. I already have plans tonight. next time.
In Western culture, they will say : Sounds good, I would love to, but I have arranged a dinner with friends. Let’s do it next time.
For me
Both different kinds of expressions have good and bad parts.
I would love to learn good speaking manners, but sometimes I feel there is always a second meaning behind it, which makes me confused about what the real meaning is in their mind .